Let me start by saying woooh! What a crazy
weekend that was…not just crazy but extremely random and fun might I add thanks
to team-mates and friends that graced the day. A simple training day turned
into a swimming afternoon and a party night, talk of things falling in place
one after another and mark you, we had no swimming costumes, we just rocked our
underwear and sport bras to the pool and we looked fab. (I hope so!)
Courtesy of Rosy image
I take a look around and it got me thinking
about how we take so many things for granted. Last week I took up the gratitude
challenge and managed to do 5 day of positivity and realized I am thankful for
just the same things, I did not broaden my thinking. So here I say, if I have
met you and we had a blast, thank you for your time.
So on the night out, after a couple of
bottles of vodka we hit the party scene. Oh how we danced the night away and
since I am now single (I might have forgotten to tell you that, it is now about
three weeks) I loved all the attention, and I picked out one fellow (ken, is
his name) from the pack of dogs in that club. I might add I picked a handsome
one, looks like the drink doesn’t deceive my vision much.
All in all, Ken though a good guy, was not
going anywhere with me, what I mean is, that our friendship would be short
lived, I was not looking for a eternity friendship, those few moments did
enough for me, but I left him a souvenir. Just guess what it was …you would
laugh your head off!
To make the story short, it has come a time
when I need not someone to be my companion. I do not need a dude at the club, or
the game or any place actually. If myself please me, and I fulfil myself, THAT
IS ALL I NEED. But let me tell a little about the guys that you are most likely to be fooled by.
The Athlete
Ever heard of the Kemboi story at a club
with a young lady, am sure she thought she was the one for him. The dream and
fantasies (Boston, London, all the countries he travels too) that were in her
mind must have overtaken her reality (am just saying) not just her but many at
times us (plus size) girls are led a stray by the obvious. I always go like
“Girl please, He don’t love you” but do we ever listen?
This kind have a way with us…regardless of
the sport, they will always deceive, they are sly men (most). It might be the
physic or just the money or is it the popularity? You will never miss us ogling
and dying to have him take us out. Proof; lets go to Nakuru this weekend, we
can testify from there…am not suggesting anything!
They never want anything more than a good
scoop, to bad for you if you get pregnant.
Picha/MOHAMMED AMIN Na FRED MAINGI
The Pop star
These ones like
the skinny type that would have to make a statement wherever they go. It would
be unfortunate (maybe a little bit fortunate) if they are real gentlemen who
genuinely fall for women regardless of size (especially plus size). Problem is they would seldom
expose you. They feel the need for model
kind of girls and I assure you not much of them last
(Nick and Mariah for example). Girl do not bother yourself with this kind of man, if
you’re plus size, beautiful and confident, do not stoop
to his level.
Courtesy of the The Gaurdian
The Club Guy
They often say the bottle guides him, therefore if he falls for you when he is
intoxicated than you know, he is a NO NO!!!
I think that
picking up a guy from the club (from experience) is the worst thing ever. Reason
is, he will only want to meet you in the
club; your date will be club oriented and you will talk about nothing except
going to the club. Do you really want that, plus size girl. He will lower your
self-esteem and make you feel like nothing rather than a club girl, which you
are not.
Instead, meet the
guy at the club, make him buy you and your pals drinks, have fun with your
girlfriends and when home time comes and he is like, “Baby lets go home,” you
just turn around and laugh it off, say goodbye and give him your number so he
can remember the girl that turned him down.
Those are the
three kind of people, I think, that can really mess up with a plus size girls
mind, but remember ladies…you are Phat and Fab…. let no one tell you any
different!
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