The real entity

I never understood the real issues of single mothers until I became one.

It's only natural to worry that no one wants to date a single mother, but you need to pump up your positivity, says Parents Magazine.

In my experience, the phases of a sort of depressed life have changed progressively into a blooming flower, or a beautiful butterfly from an unattractive caterpillar.

At first, I could not take the rejection. Not to tussle a laying feather, but clearly my tribe did not resonate well with the in-laws. Movies lie! He never chose me, he chose the 5 acre piece of land that they were threatening to withdraw from his inheritance, if he settled for anything less than Masinde or Injera or better yet, Kim from Ireland.

It was painful. Going back home to incarcerate my parents to help me raise my now fatherless child. And did I mention I was jobless? It was 3 months of worry, nursing a wound and counting my losses, then 3 months of Bible Study, seclusion and personal reevaluation. 6 months of being under and struggling to see the light in a very dark room.

At last the light, as I walked into the westlands office to start a new job, it was a stepping stone in the right direction. The housegirl drama of course never seizes, but an incredible team of powerful communication ladies, held my hand.

The weight though! With a great heritage of carrying mass, the struggle continues. I have tried Mukami, Just Gym it but I trust Pat Fitness. See you in 3 months.

Dating, I run away. Settled for sponsors and potentials, nothing intimate, nothing serious, but recently, I met what I want, but certainly cannot have.

The real entity, is what He says, His plans for you are to prosper and not to fail.