abuse on women by men is a NO NO!!!

So i sit down and ask myself why i do not have a boyfriend with money to buy me stuff and such. I realize that i REALLY DO NOT NEED ONE. I am not one of those chicks that looks for a guy to buy her stuff, infact you will find once or twice i have bought dudes stuff. I mean not once or twice quite a number of times. So once a upon a time i was dating this guy from coast yes Mombasa. The supposed man quite his job, and since am one of those girls bestowed with success (i do not mean to blow my own horn) he thought that i would support him. 1. I am a student 2. we are not married 3. we are not related 4. so why should i support you? So because of low self esteem, Churchill Omudi(mulika mwizi mara iyoiyo) decided he will hit me. Yes me, Ms Rosy be abused! even my friends could not tolerate that, so of course i ran so fast from that "relationship".

So last week i heard a woman on a local radio station confess that she is being ABUSED to the point that she feels like a child, she stays in that house with a man who hits her so heard she has spots and injuries from a kifagio(broom). So i sat down again, and thought what would make her stay. 1. she has no friends- if she had any, they would encourage her to get out as mine did. 2. she has a low self esteem- inflicted by the abusive man, to belittle her by beating her infront of their kids that she lacks confidence to walk out. 3.she is either going to be killed or is going to kill him- this is because, eventually in her eyes those are the only two options to get out of what feel like a life sentence. So what i say to abused women, there is no love that is painful. Jesus died for us so that the love after that did not have to be painful. So if he hits you once, he will do it again and again. There is no need to stay there.You have the power to determine your destiny.And being soothed after every beating is not love, SHAME on all the women who say that, or try to make excuses for their abusive husbands. For me i am sure Mr Omudi hit me because he could not stand the fact that i was bigger than him financial and economically.

I tell you all right now i am still above him. LOVE IS NOT PAINFUL,PERIOD! COMPRENDE!!!!